Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Cassi is 2

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Salem Cassidy ZuNei turns 2 today!! Cassi is waiting in China for her family, my cousin Gina & Richie. They are currently waiting for their PA (pre-approval) and ready to start the certification/authentication process of their dossier.
BTDT and it is not fun. The holidays are not easy when you are waiting for your child. But, the time really does pass and it really does happen. Last year at this time we were away from Anna during her birthday, Thanksgiving and Christmas and was horrible. It seemed as though the wait was endless, but now she is home! We are all excited for the time when Cassi will be home too.
Happy Birthday Cassi and prayers of comfort for her mommy and daddy as they wait,Rodney, Marcy, Carter, Jacob, Parker & Anna

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Early Christmas Present...

This video was made by a fellow CHI member as a Christmas present to all her blogging buddies. There are countless beautiful children in this video that have joined their families through adoption. I am so happy that she included Anna and myself. Thank you Angel!

Tissue Warning! :-)



Sending love from Rodney, Marcy, Carter, Jacob, Parker & Anna

Monday, November 26, 2007

Happy Birthday Jack!

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Wishing Jack a very Happy 8th Birthday!!

We love you Jack-a-roo!!!! Sending love from Rodney, Marcy, Carter, Jacob, Parker & Anna

Thursday, November 15, 2007

Anna's FIRST Birthday Party...

Happy Birthday Anna!


On Friday, November 9th, Anna had her very first birthday party. She was looking very cute, as usual and was oh, so rotten. She was loving her freedom to roam the room and my, my how she can work a crowd!
Anna can cast her spell on anyone. Just a smile, hug or the big guns, a kiss, to get her way.
Anna loving her Uncle Rick.
We used the "Red Thread" Chinese proverb to tie all the pictures of Anna from birth in China until now with us.


We had friends and family gather to help us celebrate Anna's first and second birthday. For us, it was not just a birthday party, but also a celebration of Anna being home and being a part of our family. Anna was more than friendly with all the guests. She was giving hugs and kisses to anyone who would show her attention. I don't think that she understood that the fuss was all about her. She just wanted the person that was holding her at the time to give her 110% of their attention.

Knowing Momma and Daddy won't let her touch the paper lanterns, she just moves to the next person who will...Anna with my cousin Janel.

She would walk around the room chasing the other kids in attendance or would walk up to the adults and let them know, in not so many words, that she wanted to be held. Everyone was more than willing to accommodate her wishes. As I expected, the whole gift thing was not her idea of fun. People were so kind and generous and she was totally content playing with the party decorations. So, I opened the gifts for her and she flicked a little piece of red shredded paper.
It's a family tradition with all the kids..."swing swong" with Uncle Pa Bobby
Anna had a blast, as did all the other kids I think. I know my boys did. All the cousins don't get to be together very often. They may get to be with Jack or Harris, but seldom do the boys, Jack, Harris and Caroline get to be together at the same time. Plus, some of our extended family was there as well with their kids.
I really feel old when my kids are hiding out in the corner listening to music instead of playing like all the other kids. Reason #5,287 Issac is cool - he brought his iPod.
We got home Friday night around 11:00 pm, totally zonked and I was ready for bed! But, we had all the left over food, presents and kids still running wide open to contend with. Saturday was going to be a full day again, so we got the kids in bed asap and passed out!
Parker's "brother Caleb" and one of Anna's #1 fans, Courtney.
There will never be a good picture of all of us...too much action!

Saturday morning, Anna's birthday, we had to go to Jacob's basketball game. Rodney was hunting and I was feeding Anna and Parker. Parker wanted a little play set opened, which I did, and he began to play. After I fed Anna, she got up and went to play with him. She walked around and packed a little puppy that came with the set. I was getting things ready for Carter and Jacob and I noticed Anna digging through the gift bags. A few minutes later, I notice she is sitting on the bottom step playing, with the puppy I think. As I walk closer to her, I notice the puppy is now on the floor. As I get closer, I see she found one of those pieces of paper in the gift bags, ditched the dog, and is now flicking the paper yet again. I know what Anna is getting for Christmas...boxes of shredded paper ;-)
We went to the Y for Jacob's basketball game and then stayed afterwards and played with the kids. After leaving the Y, we ate lunch and came home to put the babies down for a nap. Anna was totally exhausted. She took a good, long nap. I tried to straighten the mess from the night prior and put together Anna's little piano from her Nanny and Pa Ronald. When she woke up, we all played with Anna and got pizza for dinner (of course Anna won't eat pizza, so it was more the "party factor" for the boys) and ate MORE cake. This time, Anna actually ate some. Only fitting I suppose...the party wasn't actually on her birthday, so she saved her first cake tasting for her real birthDAY.
She knows when she is doing something cute and a perfect photo opp.
I don't know why, but she puts that foot up on the keys almost everytime she plays.
Sometimes it is very, I know this sounds cliche, but surreal to be where we are now. Just thinking how things were just 1 year ago. Knowing where Anna was and where she is now is just really unbelievable sometimes. There are times that I am just trying to keep the laundry somewhat caught up, get dinner on the table and take care of my 4, 5 if you count Rodney :-), kids. Then there are these moments, "I can't believe she is really here...we have a daughter from China...this really happened." I knew when we started this that God would finish it, but looking back, it is just amazing to me HOW God made it happen. It wasn't the way that I wanted, but it was perfect and in His timing, not mine. For whatever reason, things needed to occur the way that they did, and I couldn't be happier.
I had someone tell me just yesterday as they were commenting on how lovely Anna was, that she was a very lucky little girl. I responded that Rodney and I were the lucky ones.
Big birthday party, busy birthday morning, one tired little girl.
Excited about the upcoming holiday season and sending love from Rodney, Marcy, Carter, Jacob, Parker and Anna.

Saturday, November 10, 2007

Happy Birthday Baby Girl!!!!


Twelve months ago in China
There was no birthday song
No candle on a little cake
For I was all alone

Not knowing any different
In the life that I had
Every day like the day before
Without my mom or dad

There was no festive party
For my first birthday
With ones who loved me
That were half a world away

But this year is oh so different
From just a year ago
My daddy, mommy and brothers
Who I now love and know

They will sing a little tune
Never sang to me before
I am their treasured daughter
Couldn’t be loved anymore

So celebrate with me this year
On my special day, it’s true
I’m home with my family now
And I am turning TWO!

With many hugs & kisses,
Daddy, Mommy, Carter,
Jacob & Parker

Anna is TWO!

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Tuesday, November 6, 2007

My First Look...

It was one year ago today, November 6, 2006, that I revisited a waiting child list to see if a little girl, the agency called "Maizie" had been matched. I had visited this waiting child list the day before through a series of "mistakes". I had talked to Rodney about the possibility of pursuing a special needs adoption, but was still just trying to educate myself on what "Special Needs" actually entailed. From an adoption yahoo group, I had read a post regarding a new list of children with special needs. I went back to find the post to go take a peek at the children....I couldn't find it. So I did a search on the yahoo group, found a post that I "thought" was the one I had read a few days prior, contacted the author of the post and asked for the info to view the list. Being a bit confused, she responded to my post with the waiting child list address and password. In reading her message, I discovered that the post that I had read, mistakenly thinking it was the one I read before, was dated February of 2004. Apologizing for my absent mindedness, I decided to go ahead and visit this list.

I took a peek at several of the children on the list. One little girl that I just thought had the sweetest little face. She had a repaired cleft lip and was standing with a little pair of "jellies" on her feet. The next morning, a year ago today, I got up to see if she had been matched. I opened the list and checked her status. Then I noticed just below her name was a name that I had not noticed before. "Novie", the name reminded me of my grandmother and aunt...Tavie and Wavie, I know, funny names :-) But there aren't alot of names ending in "vie", and that is what I thought of. So I clicked on her name.

The file opened with a picture of a little girl, whose cleft lip was unrepaired but was almost unnoticeable because her eyes captivated me. My heart leaped. I felt excited and nauseated in the same moment. What was I feeling? Why was I getting so emotional? For the remainder of the day, I couldn't stop thinking of her. I kept going back to the site to "check" on her. As the day went on, I kept thinking "This is her, this is my daughter."


The first picture of Hai Zhi Yi, "Novie"

I couldn't mention her to Rodney. I was nervous. What was I going to say? That night I went to bed, with "Novie" on my mind and heavy on my heart. I laid there and prayed that if this was the child that God had laid on my heart, that He was let me know, undoubtedly and if not, then take the burden of this child off my mind and heart. I went to sleep.

The next morning, I opened my eyes, "Novie". I ran upstairs and looked at her picture yet again. I knew she was mine. I showed Rodney her picture, explained my feelings and the fact that I believed this was the child that God had for our family.

A chain of events and 7 months later, we met this little girl, "Novie", aka Hai Zhi Yi, aka Anna Mei Yi Gross, my daughter. I cannot imagine our lives without this little girl. I know that this is the child that God burdened me with a year before I ever saw her.

So as I go to her room this morning, pick her up from her bed, change her diaper and give her kisses, and start another very busy day, I know that I am a blessed woman.

I've been looking at your face for 1 year today...You just get prettier everyday!

So incredibly happy to be where I am, ecstatic for Anna to be where she is and sending love from Rodney, Marcy, Carter, Jacob, Parker and Anna.